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Janie Haddad Tompkins's avatar

๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

john g's avatar

well...wouldn't ya know it, but that dang ol' foot got outta that there crab trap.

monica goff's avatar

have you seen โ€œtake care of mayaโ€ on netflix? this story reminds me of that doc re: denying care, albeit very different circumstances. (itโ€™s very well done but also incredibly upsetting, so... proceed with caution!)

Sarah's avatar

Thank god your mom was eventually called in. I was worried it would turn out even worse, like they made you continue to run on it or otherwise finish out the day. Iโ€™m sorry that happened to you.

It was probably for the Presidential Fitness Test, they decided kids should be able to run a mile in 8-10 minutes if they were fit. Hated it.

Claire Gunter's avatar

I have a sneaking suspicion that the horror of PE is what starts the weird feelings we all have towards exercise. I'm currently examining this in a little series called Pilating my Revenge, right on this here platform: https://open.substack.com/pub/laclaire/p/pilating-my-revenge-pilot-essay?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=2nox8

Jason Vail's avatar

Wonderful essay, Janie. Keep them coming!

PE in the '80s certainly did nothing to inspire enjoyment of fitness, and I found every excuse to avoid it in high school. Only with proper guidance, training, and equipment (including shoes to correct pronation!) have I come to really enjoy fitness much later in life.

I don't know what the state of PE programs are today, but (coincidentally) my wife's cousin is a teacher at the school you attended subsequently. I'll have to ask her! ๐Ÿ˜†

Janie Haddad Tompkins's avatar

No way, who is your wifeโ€™s cousin?! Would love to cross paths and thank you for the kind words. ๐Ÿ˜บ

Jason Vail's avatar

Her name is Mary O'Donnell, and she just started teaching 2nd grade at Ashley Hall last year. She really loves it there. It sounds like a great school!

Janie Haddad Tompkins's avatar

Oh my gosh, I bet thatโ€™s so cuuute ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

Liz Barnes Keener's avatar

A green belt despite pronation? That's impressive. And PE still sucks, my kid was sent home barfing 3 times in one month following elementary school 'fun run' days.

Janie Haddad Tompkins's avatar

Nooooooo thatโ€™s awful ๐Ÿ˜ฉ sorry for your kid.

Jennifer Gardner's avatar

Over-pronator over here! Used to get terrible shin splints in high school (played field hockey and basketball, also in the 80โ€™s) and was always the slowest runner - because I was in pain! Somehow that translated as lazy to the grown-ups. I often had to visit the trainer for shin splint treatment. (the training room was inside the boys locker room. Not weird at all.) I donโ€™t remember what โ€œtreatmentsโ€ he provided, (I think Icy Hot and massage were involved. Ew.) but I do remember that he told me, a 15-year old girl, that my โ€œlegs were built wrongโ€. Nothing like a mustachioed middle-aged man wearing polyester short shorts telling a teenage girl that her body is wrong.

All this is to say that I very much relate to your experience - thank you for sharing. (Also, I think I remember you mentioning having a hiatal hernia on a past podcast episode - Iโ€™ve got that too. And now I sound like a creepo ๐Ÿ˜ฌ and this comment is too long!)

Tim Greiving's avatar

*pre-orders Janie's memoir*

Janie Haddad Tompkins's avatar

Ha! Iโ€™m leading up to a TV series pitch inspired by the time and place of my upbringing, so Iโ€™m getting some content ready for that specific package to show the backdrop for the fictional characters and my knowledge and experience of this world & era through a specifically female gaze. Only thing is, canโ€™t pitch until Hollywood decides to cut a deal with everyone ๐Ÿ˜ฟ but thank you! Thank you for reading/subscribing/supporting, it really is very appreciated ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

Tim Greiving's avatar

Make it so! I will absolutely binge that show. But you are such a great writer that I also don't think you should rule out a book book...

Miriam Barberena's avatar

This brought back memories. I didn't go to Catholic school, but we were made to run 1.5 miles for P.E. in school. They never gave us water, never made us stretch, just told us to go run and yelled at us if we walked for too long. I hated it! And I'm surprised none of us got heat stroke.

Anne Werring's avatar

Grade school gym class was the most demoralizing experience Iโ€™ve ever had during my first 8 years of catholic education in the 80โ€™s. I spent YEARS being one of the final three girls the team captains (always men) would negotiate overโ€ฆ. โ€œIโ€™ll take A, if you take B & C.โ€ Not quite the same experience you had at all, but left a lasting impact.

Janie Haddad Tompkins's avatar

That sounds so humiliating, Iโ€™m so sorry.

Anne Werring's avatar

Hey I survived and thrived in public high school. (Cue โ€œwhat doesnโ€™t kill you makes you stronger!โ€) or whatever Kelly said. Keep up your work-I love it!